I'm married to a woman but am closeted gay, 5'9", 180lb, cock on smaller side of average, good looking, clean, regularly tested (got HSV-2 at some point), honest, trustworthy, and discreet. I enjoy making out and kissing, give/receive oral, vers/bottom (I can top and bottom; I prefer to bottom with a passionate top, but I like to top too). Something regular would certainly be a plus. Depending on distance, regular for me would be around 2-4 times a month depending on your schedule. I’d also be able to spend most of the day with you too so we could eat out, see a movie, or whatever. Not really looking for quickies or one-time hookups (assuming chemistry is there). Goal is to find one guy to be monogamous with. This is a recent finding for me. I have had no outbreaks to date. I did get on daily suppressive therapy meds.